Wednesday, February 8, 2012

Is my boyfriend a controlling person or not?

Why is my boyfriend always insisting he drives me to and from work? He keeps saying things like "cause i love you and want to be with you as much as I can" but my coworkers are saying he's "a controlling freak". Also he always comes into the office and waits for me in the lobby instead of in the car when he picks me up.

And then yesterday when we got home, I got a call from my boss and she needed to ask me about something and after I hung up I noticed he grabbed the phone to check the caller ID. He always does that so that doesn't bug me, but what bugged me was today I was looking at my Internet History and it looks like he used the Reverse Lookup thing where he was checking her address and looking up my Boss on google. I asked him about it and asked him why he was googling my boss %26amp; he said he thought her name looked familiar and he wanted to see if she went to the same high school as him. It turns out that she did go to the same high school, but that's because we live in a small town and almost everyone goes to the same high school. So I don't know what to believe and whether my friends and coworkers are right about him being "controlling"Is my boyfriend a controlling person or not?
mmhmm It doesnt really sound like he is controlling you i mean he probably dont want to loose yOu...

My EX boyfriend was VERRYY CONTROLiNG he did not want me to talk to anyoonnee have anyone else on my contact list on my phone ONLY HIM! checked my phone ALL the time my purse EVERYTHINGG! usually got mad if i wore skirtss or if i said hi to someone THAT sonemone who is controlling

but just let me tell you something if he is stratin to do thiss you need to try to make it stop and tll him listten I dont like this yhu need to stop acting like this becuz it end up verr terriblee...Is my boyfriend a controlling person or not?
my ex-husband was the exact same way.



this is the way it starts- but it will only go downhill from here.



leave before things get out of control.Is my boyfriend a controlling person or not?
I think he is afraid of losing you. In his head if he knows everything! That won't happen. Sorry but I do think this is a problem. You can talk to him about it and see how that goes! Good luck.

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