Wednesday, February 8, 2012

Should I break up with my boyfriend if he did this?

Why is my boyfriend always insisting he drives me to and from work? He keeps saying things like "cause i love you and want to be with you as much as I can" but my coworkers are saying he's "a controlling freak". Also he always comes into the office and waits for me in the lobby instead of in the car when he picks me up.

And then yesterday when we got home, I got a call from my boss and she needed to ask me about something and after I hung up I noticed he grabbed the phone to check the caller ID. He always does that so that doesn't bug me, but what bugged me was today I was looking at my Internet History and it looks like he used the Reverse Lookup thing where he was checking her address and looking up my Boss on google. I asked him about it and asked him why he was googling my boss %26amp; he said he thought her name looked familiar and he wanted to see if she went to the same high school as him. It turns out that she did go to the same high school, but that's because we live in a small town and almost everyone goes to the same high school. So I don't know what to believe and whether my friends and coworkers are right about him being "controllingShould I break up with my boyfriend if he did this?
Well at first it sounded asthough he was a control freak and maybe a little insecure but to be honest as I kept reading the more I thought..."wow, maybe he had a crush some time ago on your boss" have you questioned whether or not he did? Just a thought...maybe he wants to come around your work area for some daily-eye-candy. I would definatly question him and let him know not only how its making you feel but also how he is looking in the process. Guys care about how they appear to people...its a male-ego thing.Should I break up with my boyfriend if he did this?
My husband drives me everywhere and I don't care. It squeezes in some extra time with him and I love that.



If he starts telling you what to wear, eat and what you can or can't do, then he will be a control freak.



Sounds to me that he does care about you and just wants you safe.

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