Saturday, February 11, 2012

Sex offender texting my girlfriend..? help?

Im not stupid and i know what to do..



This guy text my girlfriend with this following message:

"hey.. do you wanta have some phone sex?"



Im 15 and she is 14 years old... im very protective of her. she told me as soon as it happened and when i go to call this low life to warn him he sends her another text that says "i see you."



i call him and he claims that his little brother did this and that he is sorry. i looked up his information using intelius.com reverse phone lookup and called back after he text her again saying he see's her.



In the next call i make to him i tell him where he lives which i found out is Presque Isle, ME.



I told him his name and address and warned to call the cops if this kept going on...

soon later he calls me and says that the phone is in his name and etc and that he is sorry and he kicked his brother out and cleared the number from the phone.. so i ask out of curiously how the number was found in the first place. (i live in Virginia) He said someone gave it to them.. "king james?" he said or something like that...



I just need a little advice where to go from here... thanks so much for your answers.Sex offender texting my girlfriend..? help?
well you both are minors, don't delete the text and show your parents, so they can deal with it.



plus also you could be saving someones life besides your girlfriend..



in your first line you said you know what to do.



and if you keep talking to the guy it just eggs him on and will take it to the next step of actually calling her home or following her to school.



this you need to take to the cops
hmmm, this is an interesting case.



Well, I recommend you forgive and forget.



What you don't want to do is be wrong. So, let this all go, but, if he calls her again or contacts her in any way once more...



Call the police, don't take matters into your own hands, cuz even though you may be right we all make mistakes.



Good luck man. And its admirable how you are will to defend your girl so well. Few people do that.Sex offender texting my girlfriend..? help?
Keep the messages in the phone, do not delete them. Call the police and report what happened. It doesn't matter that he deleted them. The phone company will retain records of everything.



Presque Isle, ME is a very small town (I've been there before). The local cops there should have no problem finding this creep.Sex offender texting my girlfriend..? help?
Just call the police. Neither one of you are able to fully take care of this matter on your own. And sex offenders lie. So he is probably still watching her. 60 seconds alone and he can grab her and no one will ever see her again.



Also talk to her parents.
he was just prank calling/texting.



If he does it again call the cops, maybe it really was his little brother.



If he only did it once, and he said he'll stop and he said hes sorry, just drop it, its not a big deal.
If someone is sending out sexual messages, you need to contact the police and report this, you need to tell your parents that this is going on, too many weird people in this world, be safe
If you still have the message and your work, call the cops.
call the cops dude and ask your girlfriend how he got her number.
Obviously, no one assumes you are stupid. You seem very aware of a potential problem and that is good for anyone no matter what the age. The thing I see that could be corrected ASAP is to stop communication with this person. You write down and date the info you have and then block the number. A prank caller, obscene or not, is going to move on if they don't get a response of any kind. If it is more than that, the caller will insert themselves into your life again. That is when you should turn over the info to someone who can talk to law enforcement and let them handle it. You have done a good job collecting info about the caller. Just hang on to that, stop communication, and wait. Don't dwell on it however, it is probably an idiot with a phone.
Is he an actual registered sex offender? If so, contact the police department in his location immediately as he may be violating parole/prob. He's committing a crime either way, but its easy to defend.



If not, let your and her parents know. If the behavior stops, at this point I would probably let it drop. If it continues, contact your local police department, they will usually have a quick word with their counterparts where the caller is, that usually resolves the issue.



One odd note, intellius, etc does not usually reverse lookup cell phones, and it would have to be a mobile to SMSText. Make sure you have the right data.
I hope you saved all the text message and received phone calls. If you have, you need to make a police report ASAP! Show them the phone number and texts with the information you found. Then let them handle it from there. This is the legal way to handle it. If you don't have any of the information, see if you get any records from the cell phone company. Your girlfriend is lucky to have you protect her, just do everything legally and it will all work out in your favor. Good Luck.

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